The difference between men and women in relationships is a topic that has been discussed for years. There are some people who believe that women are the weaker sex, but there are many who believe that women are more sensitive and emotionally intelligent.
In this article, we will discuss how women can make a relationship stronger, what they bring to the table, and why you should stop asking them that silly question.
What do you bring to the table?
First of all, be aware that a man that asks this type of question is not approaching a woman from a kind and open perspective. He is being demeaned and implying that a woman doesn’t have much to offer, which is the furthest thing from the truth.
In the same way, a man can provide financially for his wife and family and be the sole breadwinner of the household, a woman can do the same in today’s age and society if she chooses to.
In any case, be aware that someone who asks this type of question can indirectly be asking you to prove your worth and value, from the start. And, this should tell you more than enough about how he’s failing to see your worth and why he’s probably going to waste your time.
Either way, here are a few valuable assets any woman can bring into a relationship to some extent if you’re wondering or want to know to ease your own curiosity.
1. Emotional support:
If you want to keep your relationship strong, it’s important to have a good understanding of what your partner wants and needs. Women tend to be more in tune with their partner’s emotions and desires, which is why they’re often better at fulfilling needs for emotional support, love, and care.
You can think it’s trivial and unnecessary but you’ll be surprised at how much men appreciate by nature a woman that sees a man’s role in her life, cheers him up, stands by his side, and pushes him to overpass himself every day. The stare full of respect and appreciation in a wife’s eyes for her husband can make him go above and beyond to do his absolute best for his little family and keep them safe.
Women also help their partners by providing emotional support. They are more open than men and they are able to provide empathy in a way that men can’t do as well.
2. Resolving conflicts and a healing touch:
Women are emotional, compassionate, and nurturing. They also have keen intuition and an understanding of human nature.
In a relationship, women can be seen as nurturing and peacemakers. Women tend to talk more about their feelings than men do, which can be an asset in a relationship when it comes to resolving conflict. Women also make up for their lack of physical strength by being very emotionally strong and resilient in tough circumstances.
One of the most important things that women bring to a relationship is compassion and the power to heal, care in a special way, and nurture. They are natural nurturers and they want to make sure that their partner is happy and satisfied.
3. Attractiveness, beauty, chemistry, and a fire:
Women bring to the table the entire beauty, mystery, and energy of the relationship. With their natural charm, femininity and playful side women can be the soul of the relationship itself. Especially if you’re also quick-witted, smart, and fun to be around. Then, you’re an entire asset and a precious vital part of the relationship.
In fact, even though men are expected to bring other things to the table, if you’re a woman of a specific caliber then it is safe to say that more often than not you’ll be the most lively and fun part of the relationship.
4. Balance and a different opinion, plan, or vision:
Women usually want a relationship that is based on mutual respect, understanding, and equality and not one-sided dominance or submission.
This pushes women to create a balanced and stable relationship that is more about taking and giving back from one another. This is better rather than having one person dictate fully how the other one should live their life.
Men are not so attentive to details by nature, and can easily get caught up in a role or doing what they think they are expected to do. However, women tend to bring balance by voicing their opinions and exercising their power in the relationship and couple more than ever before.
Women today have important roles in deciding how they want their little family to be, and to live and what they expect or want to be done in their marriage and family.
In the past, men were given this role which sometimes made relationships boring, unbalanced, or one-sided as men’s brains don’t like to pay much attention to the small details. But, these small things can make or break a relationship and are very important to consider and to leave in a woman’s hands.
5. Intimacy, complicity, and closeness:
Women are the ones who tend to have deeper emotional connections and relationships with their partners. They are also the ones who have a more natural inclination towards building intimacy, closeness, and complicity with their partner.
This is because women are naturally more in tune with their senses, which makes them more sensitive to touch and intimacy. They also have a natural tendency to be more expressive with their emotions and feelings.
Many men will find it very important to have a woman that can express her love freely, without barriers, and bring joy around her. Women are also usually better at comforting their partners, which can help men feel less stressed or anxious.
Life is a short journey so it is better to pass it with a loving, touchy, emotional, and intense life partner than alone and miserable. In this regard, women are very valuable life partners as they can create deep emotional bonds with a loving, understanding, willing and suitable partner that can color life in a thousand ways and make it a worthwhile journey.
6. Physical and sexual contact:
Sexual intimacy is not just about sex. It’s about being close to someone, having a deep emotional connection, and sharing your inner self with them.
Women bring a whole lot of things to the table in a relationship, but intimacy is probably one of the most important factors of all. It is easy for men to dismiss this or say that it is easily obtainable in today’s society. However, to have a loving partner by your side all the time, willing to share the beauty of life with you and explore your deepest desires whenever you feel like it, can be a huge life-changer.
Having a consistent partner that you, as a man chose and chased until you were given a chance and then having that partner be yours in every way, including the physical can be a thrilling and fulfilling experience.
Not to mention that a consistent and regular partner that you find extremely alluring and attractive and that you have chosen yourself from the beginning, can learn what makes you tick, what you like, how you like it, etc. It can be like having your own personal handmade angel that will know exactly how to be with you and how to please you in every way.
However, this is obviously only possible when both of you know how to approach the relationship in a healthy way that keeps love and respect alive. And again, it is only possible when your partner is a person of choice that you have selected based on your own preferences and criteria from the start. And, that brings us back to the point that arranged marriages may not be worth it, anymore in today’s world.
7. Guidance and stability:
The woman is the one who guides the relationship. It is her job to be the emotional center of the relationship and guide it to stability.
Women should not be afraid of being vulnerable and show their emotions, even if they are sad or angry. This is because it provides guidance for her partner on how to react and what to do next.
The woman should not feel like she has to play a certain role in a relationship, but instead, she should just be herself and let her partner react accordingly.
Women bring empathy, understanding, and guidance to the table in a relationship. Women are also better at communication, so this can help with conflict resolution as mentioned above.
Women are seen as more stable and grounded partners in a relationship. They are less likely to cheat on their partners, less likely to break up for no reason or get bored of the relationship, and less likely to be violent. This is because women have a different set of priorities and values in life than men do. Women want to find stability through relationships, while men often seek excitement instead.
So when you see a long-lasting marriage or love story, know for a fact that there’s a smart, captivating, loving, and strong woman behind it!
The bottom line:
A relationship is a partnership, and it’s important to have both men and women bring things to the table and throw in efforts and hard work in the mix to help things work and go smoothly.
Women bring a different perspective to the table in many ways. They often take on more of the household duties, they are usually more emotional and expressive, and they are usually better at holding their little family together and creating a warm home out of anything.