You’re probably not the only one who is getting excited about your ex-partner coming back into your life. Your ex is probably feeling the same way, and if you both want to get back together, here are some signs that they are interested again.
So if you’re wondering if your ex is getting interested in you again, here are some signs that they are indeed into you, again!
Signs that your ex is interested again:
1)Your ex’s social media:
If they start liking your Instagram posts and commenting on them, that’s a good sign. If they’re following your social media accounts and commenting on them, that’s a good sign too.
If they send you a text or emoji through social media, that’s a good sign again but of course, the nature of what they said or sent should be considered too.
2)They contact you unexpectedly:
If your ex contacts you out of the blue, it might be a sign that they are starting to think about you, again. However, it may also be a sign that they have found someone new and want to reconnect with you, to show off their new romance to you, or see if they can make you jealous.
However, if they contact you after seeing pictures of a special “someone” on your social media, then it may be a sign that they’re curious and want to see what you’re up to or if you found someone new, already.
This may even mean that they’re still interested in some sort and making sure that you didn’t move on. So if you stay nice, open, flirtatious, and even playful then it could suggest that you may be ready for reconciliation. And this may encourage them to make a move in that direction.
It’s important to take note of these signs and act accordingly, not to waste time or energy on an uninterested person.
3) They’re asking others about you:
When you start to hear or notice that your ex is asking other people about you, it might be a good sign that they are getting interested in you again. Or that they want to know what you’re up to, without making it too obvious. Maybe they have no way of hearing of you or getting your news, or maybe you don’t have any social media or have blocked them on all your accounts… Either way, if they’re asking about you then it is good news.
If your ex is talking to their friends and family members about you or asking your friends about you then they definitely care. They might even reach out to old friends you had in common or friends you used to hang out with as a couple, or even relatives who they have been out of touch with for a while; all just to ask about you!
4) They go to the places you used to go to together:
It’s a good idea to keep an eye on your ex and their actions. If they start going to places you used to go to together, but alone this time and without a new date or person that they replaced you with, then it’s a good sign.
Maybe, they miss you and just want to sit in your favorite place you used to go to together and think peacefully about the old good times. This is definitely a sign that they are getting interested in you again.
If they are going to the places you used to go to together, it might be a sign that they miss you and want to get back together. But then again, it could just be a coincidence or maybe they like it there or like the food there and it has nothing to do with you two. So, it’s better not to draw conclusions based on assumptions.
Why you should try and move on, if they’re not interested:
When you have been in a relationship for a long time, it is not easy to let go. Even when you know it’s time to move on and start fresh, it can be difficult to let go of the memories that you shared together.
This is why people often cling onto their exes and try their best to get them back. However, if your ex has moved on or they are interested in someone else, you should probably do the same and move on. You don’t want to end up in a one-sided relationship that can be painful, toxic, self-destructive, and not worth it.
Everyone deserves to love and be loved back. Try to look for someone else who will know your value from the start and never even risk losing you or seeing you in someone else’s arms. Either way, you can check out this article about one-sided relationships, and whether or not they can work.
It’s okay and normal if your ex is not showing any of the signs above, maybe they don’t want to be with you again after a break-up. And, that’s okay and should be allowed. It’s not that they don’t love you anymore, it’s just that they’ve been through a lot of changes and are ready to move on.
It is not always easy to move on and forget about someone who has hurt you deeply or someone you cared about a lot. But, sometimes it is necessary to let go of the past in order to move on with your life; and jump to the next best thing sooner than later.
Check out this article on why you should never live under the same roof as your ex, and why that’s the opposite of a first great step towards healing and forgetting.