5 signs your soulmate is about to enter your life

signs your soulmate is about to enter your life

Have you ever been so happy, and then all of a sudden something happens that just throws you for a loop? You can’t explain it, but suddenly you’re not as happy as you were before.

Maybe you’ve even gone so far as to say that someone or something has ruined your day. Chances are, if this has happened to you then you might be experiencing the phenomenon known as “soulmate pre-entry.”

This is an event that often signals the coming of your true love. While the feeling that comes with it at first can be compared to anxiety, it is in reality just your subconscious self getting ready for the best chapter of your life! Here are five signs that your soulmate is about to enter your life.

Signs that you’re about to meet the love of your life:

1. You have healed or learned to deal with heartbreaks:

Usually, when we feel like we are in desperate need to be in a relationship is when we shouldn’t be in one. It can mean that you still have to do some work regarding how you deal with heartbreaks you have experienced in the past, and if possible, heal altogether.

Realistically, it’s not always possible to completely heal from what hurt us, but it’s possible to learn to peacefully leave it behind and move on. Only when you can move on and receive new feelings with open arms you will be ready for a relationship.

You need to think that, just as much as you wish to be loved, so does the other person in the relationship. It’s when you learn to fully love someone regardless of any fears to get betrayed or hurt that you are ready to meet your soulmate. This way they will feel fully loved, valued, and appreciated by you so they will be less luckily to deceive you, anyway.

2. You’re not thinking of falling in love at the moment:

Have you ever heard, perhaps from close friends or family members, that it’s when you least expect something, that it will come into your life? Well, if you have you probably also heard people say this to you when talking about love. There is some truth in the fact that when you stop actively searching for your soulmate you might meet them, the next day. 

One of the reasons for this is that when you are putting in a lot of effort to meet your soulmate, you might precipitate things, and end up in a relationship with the wrong person This will only delay you more from having your happy ending. You can check this article out later on about the importance of not dating anyone just “not to be single”!

But, if you wait, and carry on with your life without having a quest for love constantly in your mind, you will welcome people in your life with positivity and neutrality. This will make you see them as they are, rather than create a fake persona or image of how you think they will turn out to be.

3. You already know what you want in every aspect of your life:

Even though it’s not always possible, many people would like to be in a relationship with someone who has their life all figured out. This way, there won’t be unpleasant surprises that could lead to a hurtful and brutal breakup.

However, if you already formed an idea of what you want in life, whether it’s related to work, where you would like to settle down, or whether you would like to have a family or not, there won’t be a misunderstanding when it comes to your love life. When you’re being able to say from the get-go what you expect and want, the other person can only choose to put their hand in yours, if they’re heading in the same direction as you.

Despite not having achieved everything you want in life, if you already know what to pursue at least, that would mean that you already know what to look for in a soulmate.

While having in mind the fact that perfect people don’t exist, you already know what kind of flaws in a partner you know won’t bother you or would be acceptable for you. That’s because you already know what your priorities are and what matters the most for you.

It’s great when you know this because you can easily make a decision right after a first date, and spot your soulmate almost as soon as you meet them. Also, you can check this article later on how to know if a first date went well if you’re not the type to gt the hints.

4. You are not waiting but embracing new opportunities:

Have you considered the fact that, if you sit around waiting for your soulmate, you will turn out to be someone who’s not very interesting in the eyes of anyone new you meet? That’s because you need to keep living your life and embracing new opportunities or taking risks while trying to keep an eye out for love.

Only this way will you be able to create memories, grow as a person and develop new interests, all this, while your soulmate is probably doing the same.

When the time comes for you to meet your soulmate, you will have stories to tell, opinions to give and memories to share. You can also find more things in common this way. Your soulmate will see that you are interested in many things and conversation will endlessly flow between you two.

On the other hand, if you put your life on hold until you find your other half then you risk becoming very boring, lazy, and uninteresting. This way even when you finally meet your soulmate they may not notice you at all because there’s no passion, excitement, enthusiasm, or anything to notice about someone who’s sitting and waiting.

5. You took the time to learn to love yourself:

If you heard someone tell you that the only way to truly love someone else is by learning to love ourselves first, they were probably right. Being able to be at peace with yourself, learning that there are some flaws in you that you will have to live with, and finding a way to be happy despite all that, is the only way you can be ready to welcome your soulmate in your life.

While the person you are in a relationship with can be someone to rely on during difficult moments, their job is not to be completely responsible for your happiness. Check this article out on how to learn to love yourself.

By learning how to be happy just by yourself, you will be able to give one hundred percent of your efforts to make a relationship work. You will both know that you make each other happy, but you also know that you were the first person to ever love yourself. You can also check this article for reasons to treat yourself with kindness and prioritize your well-being and mental health.

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