As anyone who’s been in a long-term relationship knows, it’s not always easy to keep the spark alive. After the initial excitement of a new romance fades, it can be all too easy to fall into a comfortable routine.
If you’re looking to bring some more romance into your relationship, one way to do so is by being more feminine. This doesn’t mean that you need to start wearing dresses and high heels all the time; unless, of course, that’s something you want to do!
All it means is that you need to follow the 5 steps listed below:
5 steps to be more feminine in your relationship:
1- Look the part and keep a clean home:
When it comes to relationships, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Some couples prefer to evenly split the household duties, while others take a more traditional approach with one partner taking on the majority of the domestic work. There’s no wrong way to do things.
However, if you want to be more feminine in your relationship then make an effort to be tidy and organized. This doesn’t mean you need to be a neat freak, but taking pride in your appearance and keeping your home clean and inviting can go a long way. Obviously, this will require a lot of free time.
In other words, if you want to be traditionally feminine in a relationship and look the part while also keeping the house tidy, then you need a partner who’s also traditionally masculine. This means that your man should be the one bringing home the lion’s share of your household income, which will leave you plenty of free time to find your feminine energy and manifest it.
2- Make an occasional effort in the kitchen:
If you want to feel more feminine in your relationship, then you don’t have to be cooking full-course meals all days of the week. Instead, just make an effort to cook whenever there’s a nice occasion to celebrate, at least. This will allow your caring, nurturing, and motherly side to come out while you display how well you can take care of your loved ones.
Even if you’re not a five-star chef, the act of preparing meals for your loved ones can be incredibly satisfying and romantic too. Nothing says “I care about your needs” like taking the time to make someone’s favorite, healthy, homemade meal. Plus, cooking is a traditionally feminine activity, so it’s the perfect way to add a little extra femininity to your relationship.
Of course, being more feminine doesn’t mean you have to give up your other interests or hobbies and lock yourself up in the kitchen. But if you’re looking to add a little extra girly flair to your relationship, cooking occasionally is a great place to start.
3- Don’t cringe at the first sight of an emotion:
Sometimes, it is accurate to say that the opposite of being feminine is to be emotionless. So if you want to be more feminine, don’t be afraid to show your emotions. From sharing intimate details about your day to expressing your needs and wants, being open and honest with your partner will help create a deeper connection.
This entails being more emotional and expressing yourself more. Too often, we bottle up our emotions for fear of seeming “crazy” or “overly sensitive”. In fact, it can be scary to be so vulnerable too, but it’s important to remember that emotions shouldn’t be something to be afraid of. They’re a natural part of who you are, and they should be embraced. Emotions are what make us human and they are what makes women more feminine, so they shouldn’t be feared.
If you want to be more feminine in your relationship, allow yourself to be more emotionally open and expressive. doing so will help bring some of the romance back into your long-term relationship. So learn to express your feelings and don’t be afraid to show your softer side. You might be surprised at how much closer it brings you to your partner.
4- Let your partner take the lead:
According to societal norms, there are certain things that are considered “masculine” and certain things that are considered “feminine.” In a heterosexual relationship, it’s usually assumed that the man will take the lead and the woman will follow. Some people think this is a horrible thing and as oppressive as it can get for women.
But, in the end, couples are free to choose the philosophy of life or way of living that is the most suitable and convenient for their particular context and preferences. There’s a big group of people that will find it surprising and unbelievable that some women will willingly choose to let their man lead but it is very possible.
Letting the man lead doesn’t have to be as scary as it sounds. You can still retain your independence while surrendering some control to your partner. It can be relieving and relaxing to rely on a masculine partner that can lead with confidence and it doesn’t mean that you have to keep your mouth shut. You can still keep an eye on the decisions they’re making and intervene; if necessary or if you have a strong opinion that doesn’t align with their choice.
However, trusting your partner to take the lead can be proof of love and stroke the ego of a masculine man while allowing a feminine woman not to have to worry about taking on so much responsibility. It can be a win-win situation.
On top of it all, trusting your partner enough to let them take the lead can be a very intimate experience. So if you’re looking to add some spice to your relationship, consider letting your partner take the reins. You may be surprised at how enjoyable it can be. So check this article out if you’re interested in learning more about how to let a man lead.
5- Build your confidence:
If you’re looking to be more feminine in a relationship, then you should focus on nurturing your confidence in your looks, and personality and knowing your worth.
You can do that by first taking care of your looks. Make sure you’re keeping up with your hair, make-up, and clothes; whatever it is that makes you feel good about yourself. Focus on your physique and on being happy and confident with the way you look, how you smell and how clean and fresh your body is, at all times. Again, this is about feeling good in your own skin. So exercise and eat well so that you feel content with the way you look.
And, it’s about being proud of who you are and letting it show too. So don’t be afraid to flirt and be more playful with your partner. This doesn’t mean being needy or clingy, but let your partner know that you’re making an effort for them and that you’re attracted to them too. Also, be kind, understanding, and supportive; both emotionally and physically; which will allow the feminine side of your personality to come out.
And finally, don’t take yourself too seriously. Have fun, be spontaneous, and enjoy life together. Obviously, this will be a natural outcome and result of having built your confidence. If you can do all of these things, you’ll definitely be more feminine in a relationship, and your partner will love it!
In the end, it takes two to tango so you will not be able to be feminine unless your man is masculine enough in the relationship, which will create a balance rather than a one-sided relationship.